Comparing Bothering and Bullying
A girl kept staring at a boy until he was really annoyed. He told her to stop but she didn’t. The next time they lined up he deliberately walked by her and bumped into her. This is bothering: unskilled kid behavior that annoys other children. Boys and girls tend to bother differently but they both do it. You see it in your own children (and if they never do this kind of “bugging,” then you see it in friends’ children). Bothering or bugging other...

